Adultescence

On his blog, Dad has commented on the fact that our society lack a definitive "coming of age" ceremony, a specific point in a young man's life when his boyhood ends and adulthood begins. In fact, our culture makes a decided lean to the opposite, avoiding holding young people responsible for much of anything. The obvious result is that young people aren't terribly good at shouldering responsibility even as they age, often resulting in adults who aren't able to conduct their lives in a mature fashion.

Reading through the morning paper as I occasionally do, my eye was drawn to this Winnipeg Free Press article that was written along a similar vein. It seems that social scientists have coined a new term to describe this relatively new phenomenon: "adultescence".

"The boundaries between childhood and adulthood have become increasingly blurred," said sociologist Barbara Mitchell, professor of gerontology at Simon Fraser University in B.C. Of course, Mitchell doesn't add that in blurring those boundaries, modern society has created adults -- even seniors -- who, fundamentally, are still children.

Our children are our future, we're constantly reminded. Apparently, though, the meaning of this mantra is a bit more literal than we had previously imagined.

"When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things." - 1 Corinthians 13:11

Thy Heart it Beats so Tenderly

Listen to my little girl's heart beat:


Week 22



Julie is 22 weeks along this week, and the baby continues to grow at a rapid pace. This week she has fully developed eyelashes and eyebrows and the hair on her head is continuing to grow as her brain begins a rapid growth process. Her fingerprints have fully formed and loud noises can wake her up. She may begin kicking and turning around, too. Her nose is taking on a more defined shape as cartilage appears. She is approximately 12.2 inches and weighs about one pound.

Help Us Name Baby

We're tossing around a few names, and I thought I'd give y'all a chance to weigh in. Scroll down to the bottom of this page to see the few names we've bandied about so far and pick the ones you like best. Or, leave a comment here and make a suggestion.